And so I sucked it up and ended the six month silence that threatened to end our friendship. Believe me it wasn’t easy, and when it comes to feeling unwanted I become really stubborn and often shrug my shoulders in response to the silence and betrayal I have felt from my friends.
But I did realize that it wasn’t their fault, I was at fault for causing them pain as well.
I made plans to hang out with my best friend Veronica. Nothing extravagant, I came over to her house and ate dinner with her family. For once, I was able to recognize the joy that I always felt when I am in her presence.
What did we do?
Nothing! Well, her niece Naya kidnapped me and wanted me to watch Far Far Away Idol. It was hilarious! The cast of Shrek 2 made their own version of American Idol, in which we at home have the opportunity to pick the winner. My favorite was Puss Boots, the cat. He had cool moves and a great singing voice.
Then Naya demanded that I choose another winner and we did that for about ten minutes. I laughed and laughed. I did more laughing than I did any other time at their house. The most important thing was I enjoyed myself and made some “we” time.
Veronica was starting to feel a little neglected but by that time, I was sitting on the couch watching MegaMInd—an animated movie with an ‘eeeevvvviiillll’ mastermind. I don’t know what it is about super villains but their maniacal laughs (muaaahhhaaa) cracks me up! And so, I sat there with Veronica’s niece and put all my worries aside. I was able to laugh at MegaMInd for his craziness and his plot to take over ‘Metrocity.’
The one thing that made our night incredible was the fact that we had “we” time. It is a rarity, and we cherished the time and talked about the men in our lives. The night ended with us weary and ready for bed. But I had a happy heart knowing for the moment our relationship was going to withstand.
Good night!
When I read C.S. Lewis, I feel like hear a british accent and when I read your post, I felt like I could easily hear your voice telling the story, which is cool. I would have liked to have heard more about what happened with you and Veronica and if things are back to normal now? Or is the relationship still a little strained? Always a pleasure reading girlie keep it up=)
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ReplyDeleteWe are doing good...now. For the most part it was me being too busy to do things. After awhile, people don't like hearing the word no. So, basically there was a period of silence. Until, just out of the blue I told her I wanted to hang out with her (last Sunday). Everything was actually awesome. It is funny because being with her that day...I was reminded of how much I really do need her in my life. There has to be a balance, and she is that balance for me. I hope this helps!
Well talk about language and how it can be misunderstood... I liked reading your post... Sometimes, we are too hard head to accept that we have erred. I would have liked to hear more about how you resolve the discourse with your friend. Also, the writing is wonderfully done. You conveyed exactly how you left. The description of Far Far Away idol brought a smile to my face. I love pussy in boots was my favorite cartoon as a kid. Thank for sharing
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